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As the prevalence of anxiety and depression symptoms has risen in the United States over the past few years, it stands to reason that an increasing amount of Americans can benefit from mental health help, like psychotherapy. And though many therapists indeed report upticks in inquiries (to the point where a therapist with availability can sometimes be hard to find), there still remain many people suffering from mental health symptomatology who hesitate or decline to reach out for help.
Here are five commonly cited barriers to seeking help, and potential ways to get through them. Do you have more? Be upfront with your concerns when talking to a potential therapist, and they can often address them in a way that mitigates them. No one should have to suffer alone.
1. Financial Concerns
It’s true—psychotherapy feels out of reach financially for many, and typical insurance coverage falls far short of being enough for many people looking to see a therapist for individual sessions. But it is very worth exploring lower-cost options, which can often put therapy within reach.
University psychology departments that have training programs in clinical psychology or social work, local community mental health clinics, and county mental health services are excellent places to start for affordable care. Many therapists in private practice offer slots with sliding scales and some insurance companies can be negotiated with to increase their coverage for an out-of-network provider if in-network providers are not available. Still other therapists may offer group therapy that makes getting into treatment much more affordable.
We realize that financial concerns are a significant concern for attending therapy. We work with most major insurances including United Healthcare, Blue Cross, Cigna, AETNA, and Friday as well as Medicare, Medicaid, and Foundation 1023.
If you have questions regarding Medicaid, please click HERE. Assistance can be found via phone, at your local Medicaid office, or online.
If you have any questions regarding insurance coverage or to inquire about sliding scale fees, please call our Intake at (720) 442-0946 or fill out a short questionnaire HERE.
2. Fears of awkwardness or unfamiliarity
It’s true that the idea of talking to a stranger about some of the most vulnerable aspects of your life and emotions can be extremely daunting. And yet, therapists are trained in helping their clients feel safe and valued in the therapy space. They are used to being entrusted with people’s deepest and most troubling feelings and are typically very skilled in knowing how to balance asking questions with giving space to talk.
Certain potential clients just find the whole idea awkward. “What am I supposed to say?” they might wonder. But rest assured that experienced therapists have helped many clients who were apprehensive in very similar ways, and they can help you manage those uncomfortable feelings right from the start.
Much like learning to ride a bike for the first time, starting therapy can be a little awkward at first. The great thing about the therapeutic relationship is it starts off slowly and with a solid foundation of trust and safety. Our clinicians here at Whole Connection will meet clients where they are at, whether the client is starting therapy for the first time or returning after a break. Our clinicians come from a variety of social and identity locations and offer many different styles and modalities to be able to meet clients where they are at.
Read more about our clinicians HERE.
3. Feeling underrepresented in therapist communities
Many potential clients might balk at therapy because of the difficulties of finding a therapist who will “get” their particular life experience or background. It makes perfect sense that someone might prefer a therapist with a special understanding of particular challenges that are tied to being part of a certain community, whether it involves race, culture, ethnicity, religious faith, sexual orientation, gender identity, disability, or some other characteristic that feels central to one’s identity.
Here at Whole Connection we give attention to the many different cultures and identities that we and our clients are bringing into our sessions. We believe in the practice of broaching identity with all of our clients. This practice brings both the visible and invisible into the relationship as an agent for healing and change.
Our team actively works to explore how both our privileged and marginalized identities may be impacting our work and our clients. We engage in ongoing education and conversations to continuously push our edges in this work and to ensure that we remain humble, open, and ready for feedback when we don’t get things right.
We strive through these ongoing practices, to create a courageous, educated, and comfortable space to explore identity and the impacts that culture, society, power, and oppression have on each one of our clients.
Read more about identity HERE or DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion) and Social Justice HERE
4. Fear that you will feel worse before you feel better
Sometimes when people have been masking or keeping in their pain for a long time, the idea of talking about it or letting it out makes them feel like they’d be unable to keep in control. They’d rather “let the past stay in the past” or “not rock the boat.”
While it is absolutely true that sometimes in therapy you might temporarily experience more discomfort while talking about things than if you had chosen to ignore them, the payoff of talking about those things can lead to you feeling far better than before. Bringing up difficult issues is central to the whole foundation of the gains that you can make in therapy—added insight, changed behavior, healthier habits, and a deeper sense of resilience and confidence in being able to face and manage life’s challenges.
It will probably feel difficult at first as therapy does focus on matters that have gone untouched. With therapy, you are not alone, you have the support of a trained professional. While you may feel uncomfortable in the moment, the goal is to feel better after the session ends. Our clinicians here at Whole Connection provide a wide context of modalities to meet clients’ individual needs.
Read more about our modalities HERE.
5. Concerns about scheduling or time commitment
The idea of a weekly therapy appointment can be daunting to many, and it’s probably near the very top of logistical reasons that people hesitate to try to find help. Work and family responsibilities can make it seem that a regular appointment would just be impossible. For people looking for couples therapy, this is often compounded, with the idea of finding a time where both partners can get away seeming even more hopeless.
However, teletherapy (seeing a therapist for therapy online) has opened a whole new window of availability for both therapists and clients, as commutes are removed, and often schedules can be more flexible. Moreover, many therapists offer weekend and evening appointments, or the possibility of meeting every other week rather than weekly.
We at Whole Connection pride ourselves on meeting clients where they are, this includes flexibility of methods for therapy sessions. We offer not just in person at both our Denver and Boulder offices, but our therapists are able to meet with clients via teletherapy as well.
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